International Women’s Day !


“There was a time when women activists asked me to stand up for their rights. But this time we will do it by ourselves.” – Malala Yousafzai
“You’re a female ! Are you a Feminist?”
This is one of the common perception, isn’t it?
Putting all questions on rest, this article will be my response to the social and popular belief.
Firstly, a female’s thought process should depict the support to feminism.
But also, there is no sort of compulsion to be one.

Feminism And Society
The term can be used to describe a political, cultural or economic movement aimed at establishing equal rights and legal protection for women.
The history of feminism can be divided into three waves, the first feminist wave was in the 19th and early 20th centuries, the second was in the 1960s and 1970s , and the third extends from the 1990s to the present.
Feminists and scholars refer mainly to women’s suffrage movements concerned with women’s right to vote ; to the ideas and actions associated with the women’s liberation movement campaigning for legal and social rights for women and
reaction to the perceived failures of second wave feminism respectively.
Feminism began with motive to fight for political suffrage, economic independence and personal autonomy. The ideology continued fighting battles for equality in the voting booth, schools, the workplace, health care and other major spheres of private and public life. Most feminists have conflated equality and sameness.
Boycotting patriarchal society; claiming rights over employment education.
The thing is there is no difference between fighting for equal rights and fighting for feminism, they want the same thing.


Whereas, the modern feminist movement has been hijacked in the name of progress . Though sexes are equal, but they’re different. Feminist claim to aspire to women’s equality, feminist frequently provide false evidence to prove that women are not treated as equals.

Considering the known example, which was relentlessly expressed during Hillary Clinton’s campaign for the presidency and especially since her defeat, the assertion that she was the victim of misogynistic comments and that she lost because she was a woman.
So,can men be feminists?Or are only females feminists? If you are a human being and you believe in the equality of the sexes, you pretty much already are a feminist. Unless you are sexist and consider the opposite sex to be below you and not worthy of the same human rights as you,you are a feminist.You may not like to hear that because of the controversy around being a feminist these days.But that happens to be the truth.Take it the hard way or accept it now.Your choice.
What feminists should fight for?
Three major motives are : Equality of pay in organisation, Education underprivileged girl child and Urinals at public places.
But it can be observed that the cause has diverted from it’s basic cause.

Nowadays hating men has become synonym with feminism and as a person who believes in this philosophy is undoubtedly ‘pseudo-feminist’.
The Game Of Thrones star, Maisie Williams recently said, “ You are either a normal person or sexist.”
Pinjra-tod Movement, the campaign which comprised of women from DU, Jamia Millia Islamia, Ambedkar University, National Law University and Jawaharlal Nehru University; was a great way to demand equality. Apparently , it should be supported. It grew out of a Facebook page where women hostel and PG residents shared their bitter experiences with guards, wardens, principals and landlords. Feminism has fought no wars. It has killed no opponents.

Since , women have been oppressed for centuries and typically need to fight for significantly more rights than men. Ultimately, though they’re fighting for equality and I think that ‘Feminist’ word is good enough. And Femininity doesn’t have to be represented by dresses and heels and lipstick. You can wear jeans and XL tee and still look feminine.

Women have been conveniently alienated in society since long ago, right time to stand .

“Girl Power Movement” is just meant to fight for Equality. Join it ! Proud of being a woman.

Always be brave and kind. Fight like a girl. Never feel “I Can”t” because you “Can”. Be proud of your femininity since you are World Sustainer.

Happy Women’s Day with all my heart. _xox 💋💕




“They always say, “A heart of a girl is the most fragile thing” but they lie. I haven’t seen anything more sensitive than man’s ego. A single “No” can trigger their manly blood, outrage their stout brain that they are willing to rape, acid attack and sometimes even murder just to feel at ease after the dejection.”


Rediscover Humanity : A Girl’s Voice.

Let me begin with a very personal experience from when I was in class 10. It was a dark and cold winter morning. I was standing at the bus stop, waiting for my school bus. I caught sight of a crowd of people who were busy talking, some Police Control Room (PCR) vans and another group of people peeping at the garbage dump. I could tell something was wrong but I couldn’t make out what.

My bus arrived and I went off to school. But the image from that morning kept flashing in my mind. I had an uncle who used to sit on a chair in the streets and observe every possible activity like a CCTV camera. When I returned home, I asked him, “Uncle, why had the police gathered near the garbage dump?”

He replied, “An infant was wrapped in a plastic bag and left in the garbage dump. The infant – who was a girl – was attacked by street dogs and they almost ate her head. She died due to being badly bitten by dogs. The police were trying to figure out that who had dumped her there and where she was born.”

Listening to this heartbreaking incident, I was stunned and had tears in my eyes. I don’t know what left me feeling so dazed – perhaps being a human being, I couldn’t help but curse this inhumane act. I locked myself in my room and cried my heart out. I’m not exaggerating when I say that those flashbacks still leave me feeling numb.

Millions of question disturbed me. Why did the child’s parents throw her away? Just because she was a girl? How could a mother agree to such a cruel decision? Was the mother aware of what happened to her daughter? Did the father do this alone? Was it poverty that made the parents do this? If it would have been a boy, would the outcome have been different? Did being a girl turn out to be a curse for that innocent soul? I couldn’t even imagine the pain the baby must have felt. I thought the hands which had wrapped the baby in that plastic bag must have belonged to a demon because a human being wasn’t capable of such an inhumane act.

Since then, every breath I take, I feel a sense of bliss because I had parents who accepted a girl child. They treated me the same way they treated my brothers. Yet, as I’ve grown older, I can see the anxiety they had for me. I am a Delhiite and yes, according to records, Delhi holds the highest crime rate, including the maximum number of rape cases. I belong to a city where rape is common. How can I deny this fact? No matter how much I love Delhi, and rebel to go out at nights, somewhere, like my parents, I too feel afraid for my safety.

Like me, many others have complained. But not much has changed since the Nirbhaya gangrape. What is the solution? As far as I’m concerned, only changing our mentalities can help change society. Men need to be taught to control their lust, desire and anger.

Recently, an eight-month-old baby was allegedly raped by her 28-year old cousin. The news numbed my senses. This man literally put humanity to shame. A 32-year-old Delhi woman was allegedly molested by a man who also masturbated in front of her. On Children’s Day in 2017, the capital woke up to the horrific news of a man raping a one-and-a-half-year-old baby girl. This man was supposed to look after her. Earlier in 2017, a 15-year-old Delhi girl had to deliver her baby in school after being allegedly raped by her neighbour. Women are brutalised from birth. Why should women be such easy targets? We need to teach men not to rape and kill. We need to teach them to respect others and to not curse the womb from which they took birth. We need to remind them that they are already someone’s son, brother, husband and will be fathers one day.

The above-mentioned cases are just the recent ones which made me write this. There are many other cases which have faded from our memories. But such things truly put a big question mark on humanity. Where is the equality of genders in our society? We first need humanity, for humanity has no bars based on religion or gender. It’s about morality, ethics and having a kind heart. The human race includes everyone on earth.

“Make earth a better place to live,”shouldn’t be a bookish quote. It needs to be implemented. Still, we have time to rediscover our humanity. It’s not that late. Words have the power to build new worlds and I firmly believe in them.


“Let’s get Coffee.”

“Why don’t you share your grieves?”

Taking utmost the last sip of espresso , he asked.

“I used to.”

Her cheeks rested on the wrist with droopy face.

“Learn to share again as it relieve the pain. No? Turn it again?”

Keeping the bucks in bill-wallet he uttered.

“No matter how slackened you’re to your own problems yet they expects you to be sarcastic, funny and expressive puffing up your grieve.”

Her index finger rubbed her eye lashed.

“Everyone finds easy for mysterious girls to be pretentious of her emotions. Like it’s easy to dance on a melody than to sing a melancholy.”

He smiled at her, ordered frappe and set his gaze on her as if he was finding her spill, melodious!

And conversation went on …

-Sa’Naa .




How to deal with depression ?//

Everyone gets the blues now & then, everyone deals with it in their own way. Right ? Depression is goddamn major word for it , let it be “The Blues”. It often hit me & make difficult to cope up with daily routine and concentration on work/studies. Incredibly difficult to talk about. It’s never too easy telling someone about one’s psychological trauma. It’s never that easy trying to explain the heavy feeling in chest, lack of motivation, heavy head with clashing thoughts and whirlwind of sad hurting thoughts constantly making tornado at back of one’s mind. I really do weird things to get over that disorder cause what matter is to overcome with it . No matter HOW!
I know , i ain’t good enough for tips and tricks but it these things always helped me and hope it could aid you as well !
-Foremost thing is to offer Salah(bowing, prayer) get attach your heart stings to Almighty. What we forget in our hard times. Pin it !
-Secondly, I paint my nails pop them up with colours after kicking off my bloody device (phone) . Trust me, its as fancy as its sound.
-I write journal, avoid typing on phone’s note. Penning down in journal has it’s own kind of relief. I pen whatever i feel like and sometimes many of my writings get torn away after getting out of those disorders.
-Listening music heals my soul, not all those romantic shits or heartbreaking playlists but something that soothes my soul, i prefer Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan’s voice, maybe i get so lost to get literal of His qawwalis that i end up forgetting my mental state.
-With cup of coffee. As caffeine is scientifically accurate thing for moods.
And felings of worthlessness is not my thing , at end.
Baby I am worth it.
Being girl one more thing that I can share is , Shopping. To be honest, it is quick heal . Step out of house . And you will return with leaving The Blues at market.
Last but not least, Sleeping. Yes, sleeping is the best remedy for any mental trauma. And i am crowned in it.
Above mentioned things are literally, my personally experienced remedy. Conquer it .Okay, thanks me later.
Spread Happiness & peace. 💞☮

Love ! xox



woman being

IMG-20170922-WA0001Hello !
Welcome to the world where conservative minds question you, double question you for being You.
If you’re being stalked, you’re wrong you know? Because you’re vagrant , you think that your educational premises are safe for girls, you don’t give heck to people around and their narrow, so damn narrow mentality.
And if you’re stalked, you’ll be taught You’re a ‘GIRL’ . The very moment where you’ll get to know about your Gender. Where social networking consider ‘Being woman is one’s Superpower’, your bleeding is being accepted for World’s Sustainability. You’re not supposed to raise voice and rebel. All you’re permitted is to seal your lips and Ignore.
Oh My God !
After all those protests, marches, quotes, motivational speeches and rebels, my dear girls and society is still stuck to pity small world.
Apparently, you’ll be welcomed to a Sympathetic World when you’re raped, when you’re victim. Then the society will support you  ,you know? So don’t rebel whereas be the victim. This is what they’re indirectly asking to you!
“Girls can conquer the world, is a fighter !” Will be a myth then.
“Why girl you’re so rebellious?”
“Maybe because, I belong to a family where I’m called ‘Beta’ , maybe because I am never asked to zip my lips for being Me, maybe because i have great support system, maybe because i am never refrain from expressing myself. I just don’t pay heed to the world because I’m trusted by my parents.
I feel pity when girls of 21st century, behave so anti social and who reluctant to accept this patriarchy society is encouraging Women Empowerment.

” I want every girl to know that her voice can change the world. “– Malala




-Sa’Naa / Penwoman.

Redolence Of Humanity.

6tag-5518544769-1534734936886831835_5518544769“7 billion people and still so little humanity !”

The World would be a beautiful place ,only when it’s people would be.

Humanity starts with Human. Biggest irony I ever encountered was ,there in the temple. You know what? Temple is a pretty interesting place. There the poor beg outside and the rich beg inside. Kindness, sympathy, humanity, harmonic and generosity like words are like eliminating away over time. How something can be more important than empathy for another human being’s suffering? It has nothing to do with wealth,status,intelligence and other boundaries. Preaching religion of Love and Peace. Politics view revolving around Liberty. Racial aspect belonging to genetic stock would be Humanity. And of course, sharing a common birthplace i.e. the Earth.

Oh God ! I’m putting my head to an Imaginary land ,so beautiful , so peaceful and quite prosperous. Sitting on couch and wondering of a place would take me no where. Because I’m NOW HERE, a world full of monsters lacking words like Humanity and its synonyms.

A quote of my favourite author hit me, so often hard . “The World is changed by your example not by your opinion.” –Paulo Coelho.

It would be no wrong saying that ,

we were all humans until

race disconnected us,

religion separated us,

politics divided us,

and wealth classified us.

Now, lets have glance over real scenarios. How could we resist the fact ; Poverty in India is one of major issues making India,one of the poorest country of World. Poverty is the haunting nightmare dressed variably as social evil in deep roots of Indian society which firmly need to be uprooted. Basically, it is a state where one is absolutely deprived from basic human necessity which commonly includes food, clothes, shelter, money etc including hopes. Most of the Indian population is deprived of the basic needs of life. Many don’t get two meals a day. Poor people are the depressed and deprived class. Their condition have not sufficiently improved even long after over 70  years of our Independence.  Here, unemployment and the increasing population is the main cause of poverty in India. Illiteracy, child labor, nutrition and diet, poor living condition and unemployment, hygiene and sanitation, feminization of poverty etc are some consequences.

Secondly, Child Labor and Child Exploitation is another worst social evil eating up the society. Children are exploited and are made to work in hazardous sites like cracker factories, bangle factories, drug factories and cottonseed production factories etc. Eventually, poverty and lack of social security are the main causes of Child Labor. India is the 2nd highest populated country in the world with around 40% children under age 18 in which half of the total number are engaged in this crime of child labor. A large number of poor parents are still not aware of the disadvantages of child labor that affects their children in terms of their education, health, physical, mental and social growth.

India is considered a country withUnity In Diversity ,so let’s come together and join hands to uproot the prolonged evils and  help the eyes gleamed with dreams of tomorrow for brighter future. Eyes and faces , naive and innocent of all those needy helpless kids around. Welcome to the world where you can be anything,be kind. Ever wondered what infuses wars? An unimaginable, artificial enemy of humanity against humans. We pray for peaceful and prosperous world? Right? Let’s start with ourselves. Somewhere i read , ‘man’ is supposed to be ‘kind’ for we are ‘Mankind’. This is so deep.  For a better world, we have to rediscover humanity. For better human, we have to ruin all the satanity. Perhaps, it’s a competition of a better soul and mind.

“Remember, away from chaotic ecstasies in pacifying blues, peace resides. Behind the veil of darkness lies unhumanly goliath. -Sa’Naa”

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